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We Have the Power

Tuesday, July 20th, 2010

There is nothing like the tragic devastation of the worst environmental disaster in history executed by a powerful few to uproot the depths of grief and rage that has been felt in only small tolerable doses.

Witnessing the oil covered birds with their pitiful cry of, “Why?” has unleashed grief buried so deep and so vast it is as if it is coming from the same reservoir of oil that is flowing from the Earth’s core.

It is inconceivable and extremely unnerving to witness such disrespect. Unfortunately these few are the culmination of all the seemingly small disrespectful actions that each of us takes in our lives. Multiply each of our unconscious thoughts and actions by every one of us, pour that all into one pot and you have what we see before us. Our little piece doesn’t seem like much, so we think, but, when you add up all the small pieces it makes a very big pot of toxic, destructive soup that can poison our entire world.

Don’t want to think about it? Don’t want to claim any of it? If we all claimed just our little piece it would add up to an equally large pot of pristine, delicious, nourishing soup. If we sit back and just blame those few who embody the totality of our unconsciousness, we miss a necessary deep healing, we feel helpless and disempowered, and our rage will ravage us just as we are ravaging our Earth. What we see before us is a physical manifestation of a collective consciousness that has escalated to a momentum of this magnitude. It is a single picture that gives us a reflection of our path as humanity. Think it’s time to choose another path?

Say our prayers that the right action will be taken to rectify this unconscionable disaster. Include in our prayers that each of us takes the action in our own lives that will put a stop to this insanity.

What is a simple step we can take? One obvious step is to drive less and support clean energy. Expand this outward and another obvious step is to nourish our self with seasonal, local, organic food. This may not seem like much, but consider how much fuel is used transporting our food all over the world. Food transportation and industry is a huge contributor to our addiction to oil, the life blood of our Mother. This simple step empowers us as we demand safe, organic, local food and not tolerate the continuation of this excessive need for oil. This simple step will vastly improve the health of every living being on Earth, including the Earth herself.

Our power is where we put our money and attention. Put your money and attention toward a sustainable, respectful relationship with our world such as a backyard garden, or the local farmers at the farmers market. Demand local organic food at your community grocery stores. Use the power of money and intention and transform our world instead of feeling helpless to the path of destruction.

If everyone stewarded their small piece of land, yard, or balcony that would multiply and reverberate out to the entire planet. If everyone one of us drive less, live simpler, and eat locally that would multiply and reverberate out to the collective. It is up to every one of us to right this horrific wrong we have inflicted on our Mother.

Use this outrage as the fuel needed to make these shifts. The seemingly simple act of feeding ourselves can have a huge impact. Take a serious, honest look at your life. How can you simplify and use less of our precious resources? Our prayers must be united with our actions.

My own grief and outrage has made me stop in my tracks and take a deep look at how I can reduce my impact on this increasingly fragile environment. I thank you for allowing me to speak these words as a way to cry out to others and transform this into a sense of joy and well being in the knowing that we are able to make a difference in our everyday lives that honors our Great Mother.


To Rise Above

Thursday, July 15th, 2010

I love this inspirational note from Daily Om, so I thought I would share it as a follow up to my last two posts. Please feel free to share your thoughts.

Achieving a High Vibration

We reach a high vibrational level when we are whole, healthy, and fulfilling our potential.

All matter is made up of energy, and that energy is in motion continually. Everything in the universe, from the smallest molecules to the most complex living beings, has an optimal rate of vibration to keep it healthy. We reach this high vibrational level when we are whole, healthy, and fulfilling our potential. Human beings are able to consciously control these vibrations within themselves using a variety of techniques. We know when we have reached a high vibrational state because we feel good and can sense that we are aligned with all that is. We find we are capable of healing and have good intuition and perception that are a result of our resonating closer and closer to our ideal frequencies.

Thoughts, emotions, intentions, choices, and actions contribute to our vibrational state, as do the environments we inhabit. Affirmative activities that leave us feeling joyous, appreciative, loving, and peaceful raise our vibration. Constructive, creative, and expansive thoughts do the same. When we cultivate habits that contribute to our physical health and strength, our vibration is likewise raised. Certain mantra meditations, breathing exercises, and chants are designed to increase vibration. But simply practicing gratitude and forgiveness, surrounding ourselves with loving high-vibration people, eating whole foods, and spending time in nature can also help us transcend our current vibrational limitations.

When your desire for change is strong enough, you will find yourself gravitating toward what can help you achieve and maintain a high vibrational state. A positive outlook will then become the most important tool you possess, and this outlook will sustain you when the path leading toward transformation is wide and winding. As you evolve, your vibrational frequency will also evolve, aiding you in the creation of an even higher reality. Consciously and unconsciously, you will attract auspicious circumstances and positive people that will help you continue exploring the scope of your higher self until you move beyond the earthly plane.

Jumping, Healing, Flying

Thursday, July 8th, 2010

I know I am unique as well as no different. I know we are riding a collective wave of transformation, and I know we all have our unique experience with collective similarities.  Embracing these polarities and bringing them both into focus seems to be important these days. We are being asked to honor our unique expression of the Divine and embrace it with passion so we can live who we were designed to be. At the same time we are being asked to acknowledge our oneness, not only with other human beings, but with all sentient beings on every level of existence. This is a necessary awareness that will lead us toward honoring our diversity and transform our self rejection to self love.

For peace on Earth we need to come to peace with ourselves and allow that to radiate outward. As I navigate this transformational journey I am finding there is a diversity within myself, and I am having to honor and reclaim all these unique expressions. So here I go with honoring, claiming and allowing you to witness my vulnerability. The part of me that I couldn’t afford to feel or even know existed. After all, how will I survive in this crazy world if I am vulnerable?

I admit that launching my book took me right to the edge with my vulnerability, feelings that I hadn’t allowed myself –ever. As I reflected on this it became clear that this act brought to a head the wounding of lifetimes that I carried as unfinished business from incarnation to incarnation. The very act of walking toward this moment in time became the journey for my healing of this. The gift that I was groomed to offer is the support for other women to do the same. Finally clean up and heal our old collective wounding, come out of the shadows and offer our gifts while reconnecting with our oneness with our very Mother Earth and reclaiming our self similar wisdom.

I am in awe how my personal wounding is woven into the collective wounding, my journey of healing my piece of this collective issue became my gift to offer others, and while I was preparing myself to offer it, it was working me over and supporting me to heal the very thing that I am offering to support others to heal. When I reflected even deeper it became obvious that what is supporting my healing in this lifetime is the very thing that annihilated me in the past incarnation that set all this in motion. The Divine design is beyond remarkable.

I shared on my blog right before I launched my book that I felt like I was about to jump off a cliff with my book as my magic carpet that will help me fly. Well guess what. I jumped. Did I fly? I flapped and flapped my wings bogged down with the last residual toxic slime of my old wounding. I crashed, licked myself off, dealt with the final residue and continued to flap myself silly until I could finally begin to fly. This residual was not ready to be released until I took this leap. Nothing like flapping and plunging to rid yourself of excess baggage.

If I waited until all this old toxic waste was completely cleaned up before walking toward the cliff to offer my gifts I would have never done it. Nothing was powerful enough to drive me to the edge to transform and honor my journey enough to heal on such a deep level.

We are all connected, we all have our unique gifts. The oiled slicked birds in the Gulf are a reflection of our unconscious, laden down, dying from the toxicity of the environment we all have created from not healing these olds wounds hidden in the shadows. Allow your gifts to heal you as they help heal others. Don’t wait until you feel healed yourself. Your gifts are designed to heal you as well. Just keep walking toward it, take the journey and reach out for support when you need it. But don’t stop, whatever you do. Take the baby steps, keep going. Our world is counting on all of us to clean ourselves off and come out the other side of this shining bright. If we all shine bright in our unique way, and add it all together, our collective world can shine.

New Online Courses at Wise Woman University

Wednesday, June 30th, 2010

I am offering a series of courses through Susun Weed’s    Wise Woman University. The “Divine Nourishment, An Introduction to 5 Element Cooking” is the first in the series. These courses are designed to support you  to deepen your relationship with seasonal nourishment, the Earth’s wisdom and the healing and reclamation of the Divine Feminine. They build upon one another and give you a structure to heal and empower yourself in an affordable way so you may nourish yourself, come out of the shadows, and offer your gifts to a world that is in deep need of them. The classes are set up with assignments and dialog through email and conference calls with me so I can offer even more support and give you an opportunity for questions and answers.

You may even purchase my book in the Wise Woman Bookshop, which will prove to be an invaluable resource as you take this journey.

I hope you will take this opportunity to allow me to support you to deepen your relationship with the wisdom of the Earth and Divine Feminine at a time when it is critical to our world.

Divine Nourishment Book Launch!

Friday, May 28th, 2010

Please join me for my book launch on Amazon.com!cover-150x226 2-1 June 1st is the official date of my launch. When several people purchase a book on Amazon on the same day they take notice and it becomes a recommended book.

For the entire month of June I have a promotional special offering gifts from many respected transformational leaders.

Click here so you can take advantage of this special. You will be guided to buy my book on Amazon and directed to our special gift page.

Jump & Fly, What Else is There to Do?

Monday, May 17th, 2010

Have you ever experienced the feeling of moving closer and closer to the edge of a cliff, withcover-150x226 2 the intention of jumping off? You feel that surely you will fly. How could you not with your certainty about the unfolding of your journey. But, there is always that little voice that says, “What if you’re wrong?” What if you have been fooling yourself and you are about to plummet to the Earth, never to be capable of picking yourself back up and fly again? As you get closer to the edge the voice gets louder, tugging at you, telling you that it is trying to keep you safe and what you are about to do is fool hearty. Following your heart is for children with no responsibilities. This voice is trying to save you from a disastrous fate. It tries to convince you that all the energy, time, obstacles overcome, healing that has needed to take place, faith it has required, impractical use of funds you have invested in this soul journey is a ridiculous example of the many reasons you can’t trust your heart. Some times that voice is so loud it drowns out the feelings of the heart and makes you feel like you are in the middle of a grand experiment that is about to go awry. But, for some reason you just keep inching toward the edge, readying yourself to jump, hoping your heart is truly your guide and won’t lead you astray.

For many women who are coming out of the shadows, risking the safety net behind the scenes it is a scary journey after all these years and lifetimes. On some level we have found a sense of safety by staying invisible. The conflict between this and our deep soul’s desire to grow and step up embodied and participate in this extraordinary time in history can be very challenging. Bless us all for doing our inner and outer work to show up.

I am one of these women. I have walked a path this entire lifetime that has taken me to this edge. As I am about to jump using the launch of my book as my magic carpet that will support me to fly I can’t help but reflect on all this. My book is me, my version, my journey, healing, and wisdom gained as a collective member of the force of the feminine coming out of the shadows to support the transformation the entire world is going through. It is scary to make the jump. It is intolerable to not.

I launch my book on June 1st. It is my jump off the cliff. It supports all women to do the same in their own time and healing so we may all show up. It supports our reunion with our great Mother so we can feel held and nourished as we take our journey.

I ask for your support in this spring birth as I offer mine to you. Please consider buying and reading my book. Help me fly as I offer this honest and profound extension of myself that will support you to do the same.


Drill Baby Drill

Tuesday, May 4th, 2010

One of the perennial questions we ask ourselves is whether all of nature is there for us to use and then discard or whether mankind owes a debt to nature. Many humans do have an instinct to personalize the natural world in the form of Mother Nature and to see the planet as a complex living thing… the so-called Gaia outlook. Questions like this are usually raised when a man-made disaster, such as the current Gulf of Mexico oil catastrophe, occurs.

When we, and much of the world, were agrarians, we took better care of our natural surroundings. We needed the land and water for nourishment and the air for breath itself…and we still do. But we continue to pay a heavy price for a century and a half of industrialization, much of it pursued as if the land, water, and air were free goods that would have to somehow heal themselves or that we would leave to our children to clean up. The industries that poisoned the waterways, soil, and air were almost never around to pay for the damage.

As there are born liberals and born conservatives, I’ve come to believe that some of us have an instinct to protect nature and some do not. Barring some magical transformation of human nature, that will probably always be so. But, as mankind makes war on nature as we are now doing in the Gulf, little is heard from the “drill, baby, drill” crowd, so willing to take risks at nature’s expense recently. And the president, himself recently converted to off-shore drilling, is now having second thoughts.

As, in a more perfect world, it would be civilized and mature to hold public discourse without the screams and finger-pointing of the day, so it would be helpful if to no one else but future generations and Nature herself to take into account the damage we so casually do in order to drive inefficient vehicles and burn lights in empty rooms.

For a time, as after Exxon Valdez, we will look with sorrow at the oil-coated birds and beaches and sympathize with the out-of-work fishermen. “How’s that drilly, oily stuff workin’ for ya’ these days,” no politician will cutely ask. But, not long thereafter, “drill, baby, drill” will return, and with it the scorn for those who think we all might owe Nature a little more respect.

Gary Hart

Huffington Post

Embracing the Divine Feminine In Her Entirety

Monday, May 3rd, 2010

I follow the rhythm and flow of the seasons. It has been a powerful way to acquaint myself with the Divine Feminine in her vastness and multitude of manifestations. It supports me to see myself reflected through the eyes of nature as a mirror of the Divine Feminine within me. Through this practice I find that I allow myself to flow from one flavor of my vast being to another just as she flows from season to season with different energetic qualities. There is no one face of the Feminine. I have discovered that the less I identify with one aspect of her and allow her to come through in her many expressions the more life force I have and the more alive my life becomes. Recently I had a day that was an exquisite example of her flowing through me in her ability to embrace all of life. It was a major wake up call for me and one of those pivotal moments that resulted in a “yes” I can do this. I can be her. I am her!

I work as a private chef for high end clients periodically. One of my jobs took me to Maui, my former home as chef for clients from Moscow. Because it was home for years I still have close friends there. I stayed with a friend whose Mother was suffering from Alzheimer’s. I offered to help care for her while there around my job. After I arrived she went down hill and my days were split between shopping and cooking for clients who paid me to be not only professional but very creative with my food. They were on vacation celebrating life. My food as art was part of this celebration. Before and after this excursion into the feminine expression of life I supported my friend and her mother as she rapidly approached death’s door.

The doorway between the worlds swung open every day as I moved from one reality to the other very much needing to be present for both. The world in which I was staying escalated as we stayed up most the night supporting this elegant woman to let go of her life with peace in her heart. The morning came when she let her life go. I was blessed to be with her in that moment. The daughters, and a couple other women, including myself bathed, anointed, and dressed her body. We honored her passing with such a sacred ritual of the Goddess as a gate keeper between the worlds.

I immediately left this sacred space to shop at the local store, go to my client’s vacation villa, prepare a meal that would dazzle them, support their celebration of a day on Maui that was exhilarating and made them thrilled to be alive. I never mentioned to my clients what my day was like before coming to work.

I was blessed with a day that the Great Divine Feminine offered me with her signature. She owns it all. It is all equally sacred. The more I embrace life and death equally the more alive I feel, the more sacred my life becomes, the more I can embrace her in her entirety. It was a glorious sacred day!


Women Supporting Women

Thursday, April 15th, 2010

DSC_0754There was a time where women stood together in a bond of sisterhood, women supporting women.

As women embrace the fullness of who they are as individuals, they may find themselves supporting other women, helping others to reach the level of inner comfort and outer freedom that they themselves have found. Among those who are less sure of themselves and their place in the world, it may be more common to criticize other women than to seek their help. But there are things that a woman can only learn from another woman, as there are things about being a man that can only be learned from other men. We all recognize that we have much to learn from each other regardless of gender, but sometimes we could use a supportive role model that gives us a more precise example of what and who we can become.

There was a time where women stood together in a bond of sisterhood, women supporting women. It is only natural that the pendulum swings out of balance for a while so that we may have the experience of what we do not want. It is up to women to bring the pendulum back into balance and bring back the sacred sisterhood we yearn for at our core.

If we envision a world where women support each other and help each other find their place in an ever-changing world, then we can become the change we want to see. Jealousy, envy, criticism, and judgment are refuges for the insecure. As we help others to become self-assured, we create a world in which all people help each other, regardless of gender. Only women can make the change in how women are seen and understood, not just by other women but by the world at large. The way we speak about each other to other women and to the men in our lives informs everyone to treat us with the respect that all women, and all people, deserve.

From Daily Om

04/15/10


Online Course

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

I am delighted to announce that my online course, “Divine Nourishment through Seasonal Cookingis now available in collaboration with Daily Om. Simply click on this link, follow instructions for payment, and the 8 week course will be sent to you one lesson per week!! Please check it out!

Thank you

Mary Lane

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