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We Have the Power

Tuesday, July 20th, 2010

There is nothing like the tragic devastation of the worst environmental disaster in history executed by a powerful few to uproot the depths of grief and rage that has been felt in only small tolerable doses.

Witnessing the oil covered birds with their pitiful cry of, “Why?” has unleashed grief buried so deep and so vast it is as if it is coming from the same reservoir of oil that is flowing from the Earth’s core.

It is inconceivable and extremely unnerving to witness such disrespect. Unfortunately these few are the culmination of all the seemingly small disrespectful actions that each of us takes in our lives. Multiply each of our unconscious thoughts and actions by every one of us, pour that all into one pot and you have what we see before us. Our little piece doesn’t seem like much, so we think, but, when you add up all the small pieces it makes a very big pot of toxic, destructive soup that can poison our entire world.

Don’t want to think about it? Don’t want to claim any of it? If we all claimed just our little piece it would add up to an equally large pot of pristine, delicious, nourishing soup. If we sit back and just blame those few who embody the totality of our unconsciousness, we miss a necessary deep healing, we feel helpless and disempowered, and our rage will ravage us just as we are ravaging our Earth. What we see before us is a physical manifestation of a collective consciousness that has escalated to a momentum of this magnitude. It is a single picture that gives us a reflection of our path as humanity. Think it’s time to choose another path?

Say our prayers that the right action will be taken to rectify this unconscionable disaster. Include in our prayers that each of us takes the action in our own lives that will put a stop to this insanity.

What is a simple step we can take? One obvious step is to drive less and support clean energy. Expand this outward and another obvious step is to nourish our self with seasonal, local, organic food. This may not seem like much, but consider how much fuel is used transporting our food all over the world. Food transportation and industry is a huge contributor to our addiction to oil, the life blood of our Mother. This simple step empowers us as we demand safe, organic, local food and not tolerate the continuation of this excessive need for oil. This simple step will vastly improve the health of every living being on Earth, including the Earth herself.

Our power is where we put our money and attention. Put your money and attention toward a sustainable, respectful relationship with our world such as a backyard garden, or the local farmers at the farmers market. Demand local organic food at your community grocery stores. Use the power of money and intention and transform our world instead of feeling helpless to the path of destruction.

If everyone stewarded their small piece of land, yard, or balcony that would multiply and reverberate out to the entire planet. If everyone one of us drive less, live simpler, and eat locally that would multiply and reverberate out to the collective. It is up to every one of us to right this horrific wrong we have inflicted on our Mother.

Use this outrage as the fuel needed to make these shifts. The seemingly simple act of feeding ourselves can have a huge impact. Take a serious, honest look at your life. How can you simplify and use less of our precious resources? Our prayers must be united with our actions.

My own grief and outrage has made me stop in my tracks and take a deep look at how I can reduce my impact on this increasingly fragile environment. I thank you for allowing me to speak these words as a way to cry out to others and transform this into a sense of joy and well being in the knowing that we are able to make a difference in our everyday lives that honors our Great Mother.


Jumping, Healing, Flying

Thursday, July 8th, 2010

I know I am unique as well as no different. I know we are riding a collective wave of transformation, and I know we all have our unique experience with collective similarities.  Embracing these polarities and bringing them both into focus seems to be important these days. We are being asked to honor our unique expression of the Divine and embrace it with passion so we can live who we were designed to be. At the same time we are being asked to acknowledge our oneness, not only with other human beings, but with all sentient beings on every level of existence. This is a necessary awareness that will lead us toward honoring our diversity and transform our self rejection to self love.

For peace on Earth we need to come to peace with ourselves and allow that to radiate outward. As I navigate this transformational journey I am finding there is a diversity within myself, and I am having to honor and reclaim all these unique expressions. So here I go with honoring, claiming and allowing you to witness my vulnerability. The part of me that I couldn’t afford to feel or even know existed. After all, how will I survive in this crazy world if I am vulnerable?

I admit that launching my book took me right to the edge with my vulnerability, feelings that I hadn’t allowed myself –ever. As I reflected on this it became clear that this act brought to a head the wounding of lifetimes that I carried as unfinished business from incarnation to incarnation. The very act of walking toward this moment in time became the journey for my healing of this. The gift that I was groomed to offer is the support for other women to do the same. Finally clean up and heal our old collective wounding, come out of the shadows and offer our gifts while reconnecting with our oneness with our very Mother Earth and reclaiming our self similar wisdom.

I am in awe how my personal wounding is woven into the collective wounding, my journey of healing my piece of this collective issue became my gift to offer others, and while I was preparing myself to offer it, it was working me over and supporting me to heal the very thing that I am offering to support others to heal. When I reflected even deeper it became obvious that what is supporting my healing in this lifetime is the very thing that annihilated me in the past incarnation that set all this in motion. The Divine design is beyond remarkable.

I shared on my blog right before I launched my book that I felt like I was about to jump off a cliff with my book as my magic carpet that will help me fly. Well guess what. I jumped. Did I fly? I flapped and flapped my wings bogged down with the last residual toxic slime of my old wounding. I crashed, licked myself off, dealt with the final residue and continued to flap myself silly until I could finally begin to fly. This residual was not ready to be released until I took this leap. Nothing like flapping and plunging to rid yourself of excess baggage.

If I waited until all this old toxic waste was completely cleaned up before walking toward the cliff to offer my gifts I would have never done it. Nothing was powerful enough to drive me to the edge to transform and honor my journey enough to heal on such a deep level.

We are all connected, we all have our unique gifts. The oiled slicked birds in the Gulf are a reflection of our unconscious, laden down, dying from the toxicity of the environment we all have created from not healing these olds wounds hidden in the shadows. Allow your gifts to heal you as they help heal others. Don’t wait until you feel healed yourself. Your gifts are designed to heal you as well. Just keep walking toward it, take the journey and reach out for support when you need it. But don’t stop, whatever you do. Take the baby steps, keep going. Our world is counting on all of us to clean ourselves off and come out the other side of this shining bright. If we all shine bright in our unique way, and add it all together, our collective world can shine.

Divine Nourishment Book Launch!

Friday, May 28th, 2010

Please join me for my book launch on Amazon.com!cover-150x226 2-1 June 1st is the official date of my launch. When several people purchase a book on Amazon on the same day they take notice and it becomes a recommended book.

For the entire month of June I have a promotional special offering gifts from many respected transformational leaders.

Click here so you can take advantage of this special. You will be guided to buy my book on Amazon and directed to our special gift page.

Online Course

Thursday, April 1st, 2010

I am delighted to announce that my online course, “Divine Nourishment through Seasonal Cookingis now available in collaboration with Daily Om. Simply click on this link, follow instructions for payment, and the 8 week course will be sent to you one lesson per week!! Please check it out!

Thank you

Mary Lane

Beloved Joy

Monday, December 28th, 2009

It is officially winter. My parting experience from fall, and my welcoming experience into winter will give me plenty to take into my winter inner travels to integrate, gestate, and bring form to in the spring.

I recently went back to my former full time home, Maui to support a close friend through her final passage in this incarnation. I arrived only three days before she left her body. It was the end of fall, the end of her life, the ultimate let go that the essence of fall embodies. I was honored to witness her process of letting go in those final days, recognizing that the more she let go the more she felt the love and compassion pouring her way from our community of caregivers. She left this life feeling loved and cared for, just as it should be, and, she gave us the gift of witnessing her final breath as she took it with eyes wide open and a smile on her face.

I was actively working the piece of letting go of control so I could open to a deeper connection to inner guidance before I went to Maui this fall. What I was given was the ultimate example. Just one of the many examples I was to receive showing me how life opens up and gives you what you need.

Now, I have obviously been restoring my relationship with the Divine Feminine throughout my journey in this lifetime. Hence the book I have written. This experience showed me there was a deeper level of work for me to do to reclaim my ability to open, and receive while letting go of what I think it should look like. Just like my friend at the end of her life, my needs are met, my soul is leading the way, just stay awake, even if it is your last breath, let go, and you will be met with LOVE. She left on the dark of the moon at the darkest time of the year on Dec12th. By the time we carried her body through the remainder of this sacred ritual it was time to go home.

I left Maui to return to my home in the mountains outside of Asheville, NC. I almost couldn’t take in all the love, appreciation, and kindness I was surrounded by. I kept feeling that I just needed some quiet time to integrate this experience so I don’t waste the incredible gift my friend left me with. I could see that there was some work to do of my own around receiving.

Upon returning home I was met by a big snow storm. I was stranded in my home on the mountain with my car stuck in a ditch halfway down my windy dirt road. The power lines came down along with the phone lines. The pump for the well doesn’t run without electricity. Nothing to do for days except be still, quiet, and integrate. I was given exactly what I needed. Now I am continuing to be quiet in the stillness of winter, stoking my wood burning stove, going deeper into the gift my world has offered up for my growth and reclamation of a shy, somewhat dormant piece of myself that is essential. I am much more conscious of how it feels to meet the world with a tight fist or an open receptive hand. The recent experiences have once again given me the reminder that I can trust that the jewels of life will land in my welcoming palm.

My beloved friend’s name was Joy. How poignant to also be reminded that I can learn through Joy. Thank you my beloved dear sister. Your parting gift was gratefully received and will not be wasted.

Part 5: Interview with Saumya

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

Saumya Interview 5

I am delighted to share the last segment of my interview with Saumya. I hope it has touched a recognition within and has been supportive to you on your journey.

Love, Mary

Part 3: Interview with Saumya

Monday, October 12th, 2009

Saumya Interview 3

This is part three of my interview with Saumya after she had read my book and began the practices in the first part of it. It supports you to nourish yourself. There is more coming so please stay tuned.

Part 1 Interview with Saumya

Friday, October 9th, 2009

Saumya Interview 2 2

I would like to share an interview with my friend Saumya who has read my book, Divine Nourishment/A Woman’s Sacred Journey with Food. This is part 1. I have to share this in little bite size pieces so it’s not too big of a file for this blog. If the first part intrigues you come back for the second helping. It could be delicious.

Fall

Sunday, September 13th, 2009


Fall is a time of letting go and cleansing. The season relates to the colon and lungs in Chinese Medicine. Their imbalances get magnified in the fall. Not only is it a good time to cleanse the colon, but allowing the grief that is stored in our lungs and respiratory system is cleansed through the grieving process. We have a tendency to shy away from grief in our culture. It is an uncomfortable emotion for many. Grieving loss is the same as valuing and honoring. Being a plant spirit person who seeks the guidance and wisdom of the plant kingdom I reflect on something I was told in one of my plant explorations. “If you can’t grieve, you can’t love. To the depth you can grieve is the depth you can love.” When you value and honor someone or something it is part of the honoring to grieve its loss. Holding onto the grief and stuffing it away in the shadows keeps us at arms length from deep love.

This season has so much to offer to support us to embrace all of ourselves and the world around us. On the pure physical level it is an ideal time to cleanse the colon and remove the old sludge from our bodies. On the emotional level it is a wonderful time to go inward and feel our grief. Let it move us into a deep cleansing of our soul. Ritualize it and make it sacred. Let it rip. Go for it. Feel the sweetness that pure grief has. Feel how honoring it is of what we are grieving. It will prepare you for planting the seeds and growth of our ever changing life adventure.

I have a good colon cleanse and herb tea tonic in my book that supports you to align with this season and embrace the support that is available this time of year for our human journey.

More on Honoring

Sunday, September 6th, 2009

My attention naturally begins to turn inward as the weather cools and fall begins to take hold. What have I harvested from the last year’s cycle of efforts? How am I honoring myself and my loved ones. What do I need to let go of in order to nourish the shift from self rejection to self honoring? Am I living a life that honors who am? Am I taking steps every day to bring the Divine Feminine within myself out of the shadows? These questions always seem to arise when I enter this season.

I woke up today with the recognition that yesterday was one of those perfect days that honors who I am and the life I strive to live as a manifestation and expression of Mary.

I actually woke up feeling a little off. It was a beautiful day, so I put on my hiking boots, strapped on my fanny pack with my harvesting tools and headed out the door for a walk. A walk in the woods on the mountain where I live is a sure way to brig me back to myself. I meandered along the creek and found a huge wild blueberry bush bursting with ripe blueberries. I gathered the berries as I created all kinds of dishes in my head that blueberries could star in. I continued down the road and because we have had a wet summer the bounty of mushrooms growing on the mountain is quite abundant. I gathered what I knew for sure was edible, plus what I thought was a chantrelle, but not 100% sure. If chantrelles are growing in my neighborhood I’m more in heaven than I thought. I stopped by the neighbor’s house and we got out our books to key it out.Yes, a chantrelle!

I continued up the road toward my home and found an elderberry bush full of ripe berries. I have been waiting to make my winter flu remedy from the berries, so this was the day. I stopped and gathered the berries, as many as I could possibly get from one bush.

When I got home I made my flu remedy with the berries. I went out to the garden and picked ripe tomatoes and herbs and made a delicious tomato sauce. I prepared a wild mushroom risotto with the mushrooms gathered on my walk, topped with my garden tomato sauce and served it with steamed collard greens which I bought from a local farmer. I shared my very local meal with a friend and we oohed and aahed over how delicious and nourishing it was. Grounding myself in the wild gatherer in me, eating the foods that live with me on the mountain, whether in my garden or out in the wild and sharing it, making my medicine is honoring who I am when I am left to my own soul’s needs. I realized that when I am off and feeling overwhelmed the best remedy is to just stop and take time to be me. It will bring me back. What a concept. I have discovered yet another good reason to honor myself and let go of what doesn’t serve that. Can I trust that life will support me when I devote myself to being me as I bring the Divine Feminine within myself out of the shadows of my own psyche and let her live in a place of honor in my life? Well, this is my experiment. I’ll keep you posted on my progress. I welcome dialog with anyone who is doing the same experiment.


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