Women Supporting Women

April 15th, 2010

DSC_0754There was a time where women stood together in a bond of sisterhood, women supporting women.

As women embrace the fullness of who they are as individuals, they may find themselves supporting other women, helping others to reach the level of inner comfort and outer freedom that they themselves have found. Among those who are less sure of themselves and their place in the world, it may be more common to criticize other women than to seek their help. But there are things that a woman can only learn from another woman, as there are things about being a man that can only be learned from other men. We all recognize that we have much to learn from each other regardless of gender, but sometimes we could use a supportive role model that gives us a more precise example of what and who we can become.

There was a time where women stood together in a bond of sisterhood, women supporting women. It is only natural that the pendulum swings out of balance for a while so that we may have the experience of what we do not want. It is up to women to bring the pendulum back into balance and bring back the sacred sisterhood we yearn for at our core.

If we envision a world where women support each other and help each other find their place in an ever-changing world, then we can become the change we want to see. Jealousy, envy, criticism, and judgment are refuges for the insecure. As we help others to become self-assured, we create a world in which all people help each other, regardless of gender. Only women can make the change in how women are seen and understood, not just by other women but by the world at large. The way we speak about each other to other women and to the men in our lives informs everyone to treat us with the respect that all women, and all people, deserve.

From Daily Om

04/15/10


Simple Spring Tonic Salad

April 12th, 2010

Spring Tonic Salad

Ingredients
4 cups fresh dandelion greens
1 cup coarsely chopped fresh romaine lettuce, or mixed baby lettuces
ÂĽ cup fresh mint leaves
ÂĽ cup fresh basil leaves
2 TBS chopped fresh chives
½ cup alfalfa or radish sprouts

Dressing
2 TBS extra virgin olive oil
1 TBS fresh lemon juice
2 medium cloves pressed garlic
1 tsp honeysalt & black cracked pepper to taste

Directions
Rinse and dry greens in a salad spinner if you have one. If not, rinse and pat dry so excess water does not dilute the flavor of the dressing. Toss with dressing, and sprinkle with minced chives Serves 2

Online Course

April 1st, 2010

I am delighted to announce that my online course, “Divine Nourishment through Seasonal Cookingis now available in collaboration with Daily Om. Simply click on this link, follow instructions for payment, and the 8 week course will be sent to you one lesson per week!! Please check it out!

Thank you

Mary Lane

Spring is Springing!

March 31st, 2010

Finally, after a long winter with more snow than anyone alive in my neighborhodd has ever seen the little green shoots are poking up through the crust of the Earth with their verdent green smile. The mountain is carpeted with blooming Trillium, soon to be followed by the lovely Bloodroot. Chickweed is everywhere! If you have Chickweed in your garden don’t kill it, eat it! It is a wonderful lymphatic cleanser that nature puts out right after a more sedentary winter lull. The system has gotten sluggish. It is not a coincidence that greens such as dandelion, nettles and chickweed are the first to be popping up. Time to do our spring cleanse. Here is a nice spring drink I make that helps to clear away some of the winter cob webs. I drink it every day for a good month while these plants have their new vibrant youthful energetic energy.

Spring Cleaning Tonic

This is a good tonic that you can drink all through spring. Go out in nature and gather as much of the greens as possible. Not only is this a good liver tonic, but gathering wild greens out in nature gets you in touch with nature’s reflection of spring energy.

2-3 handfuls mixed herbs: parsley, dandelion leaves, mint, chickweed, miner’s lettuce, nettles, plantain.

1 TBS chopped fresh ginger

2 cups freshly squeezed grapefruit juice.

2 TBS fresh lemon juice.

1-2 TBS honey

2 cups water

Place all ingredients in a blender and blend on high speed until leaves are liquefied. Allow to stand for an hour or more and strain. Discard the solids and drink the refreshing liquid.

Seasonal Eating & Healing

February 25th, 2010

Seasonal eating runs deep and wide in our lives when we look beneath the surface.

I was at a gathering of women the other night. There was a sharing about how it looks and feels for the Divine Feminine to be showing back up in the world now on a collective and personal level. Each woman shared how she was breaking through in her own life. There was a theme of having to do the shadow work and clean up all the old stuff so she can emerge out of the shadows free from the wounding of a patriarchal era.

We discussed the need to embody the Divine Feminine in our lives grounded in her Earthly energy. This is where she is needed. This is where she is. She is not just an archetype in another dimension, she is the Earth herself. Her wisdom, and integration of the vastness of the Divine Feminine is who we are returninmg to, reclaiming, and honoring.

The movement to “save” the Earth is a noble one. However, it is still laced with the flavor of the patriarch. Women are becoming more empowered each generation. The fantasy of being saved by the white knight as we swim in our damsel in distress is rapidly becoming an antiquated fairy tale. It is no longer the desire of women to be saved. We have moved beyond that. We are saving ourselves through honoring ourselves.  We have moved into a recognition that to create balance and union we must have our wisdom honored. We are self similar to the Earth goddess. We are all made up of her very body. It is also true of her.

The Earth is not a damsel in distress waiting to be saved by those who separate themselves from her. It is quite the contrary. If we want to save ourselves we need to honor her wisdom. She is the one that will guide us through and open the door. She is reflecting back to us just how to do this with her seasonal map. All we need to do is pay attention to what she is offering seasonal course by seasonal course.

I have found that healing a collective wound that is carried by us all that keeps us trapped in a belief that we are unworthy runs parallel to nourishing ourselves by this wisdom. When we honor ourselves we honor the Earth, and when we honor the Earth we honor ourselves. The first step is taking the time to nourish ourselves aligned with her wisdom.

This winter has been an enormous gift for myself and many around me to do some deep shadow work. And as true to nature we are rising in spring to give birth to ourselves free from much of the unconscious behaviors from old wounding. Each winter us another opportunity to dive in and heal what we can. I so love how the seasons support us to heal while we nourish ourselves.

If this resonates with you and you would like support in this collective and personal journey, not just in recognizing the wisdom of nature in nourishing yourself, but also the internal shadow work needed to heal old wounding, consider my book as a support guide that is designed to do both.

You may need to digest it one small bite at a time as you go through the possible resistance in the beginning of the journey of looking beneath the surface at what drives your life. But if you give yourself time to step back, reflect, and do the work, it will be a great guide that will support you.  It will also give you seasonal practical guidance in how to nourish yourself according to the Earth’s wisdom while you heal and reclaim your hidden treasures.

Great Nourishing Winter Soup

January 29th, 2010

MISO, SHITAKE MUSHROOM, SEAWOOD SOUP

Ingredients:

6 whole dried medium shitake mushrooms

6 cups warm water

4 medium sized pieces wakame seaweed

2 TBS chopped dulse seaweed

1 medium onion, quartered and sliced thin

3 medium cloves garlic, chopped

2 TBS minced fresh ginger,

2 TBS soy sauce

1 TBS rice vinegar

3 TBS minced scallion greens for garnish if locally available

salt and white pepper to taste

2 TBS miso

Directions:

Rinse mushrooms and wakame and soak in 2 cups of warm water for about 10

minutes, or until soft. Save water.

Heat 1 TBS seaweed water in medium sized soup pot.  Sauté onion in seaweed water

over medium heat for about 5 minutes stirring frequently. Add garlic, ginger and

continue to sauté for another minute

When mushrooms and wakame are soft, slice the mushrooms thin and chop the

seaweed. Cut out stems when slicing mushrooms and discard. Add to soup pot along

with soaking water, and 4 more cups of water. Bring to a boil on high heat. Add dulse.

Once it comes to a boil, reduce heat to medium and simmer uncovered for about 10

minutes. Season with salt, pepper, soy sauce and rice vinegar. Add minced scallion

and serve. Stir in miso at the end of cooking. Serves 4.

Ahhhh! Winter

January 29th, 2010


I have followed the energy of nature for years. I live in the woods surrounded by nature. She is up front and very present in my life. She is my teacher.  And I have known that winter is a time for rest and gestation of the seeds of our creations. However, even though I know this, and have lived it to the best of my ability, there has always been a nagging voice that made it impossible to rest at the depth I have needed my entire life. No matter what I was doing to nourish myself and rebuild my energy I listened to this voice telling that I should be doing something else more productive. If I didn’t I wouldn’t survive. Drove me nuts!

The experience I had recently supporting my friend to leave this world had a more profound effect on me than I realized. I am experiencing winter at a depth that I am actually witnessing nature doing in her sillness all around me. I am resting at a depth that I could reach only when I no longer feared “Madam Death.” She is the side of the great feminine that no one wants to embrace.

Ironically, I am discovering something quite the opposite is appearing as a result of letting go of this gripping fear that if I don’t keep moving, and producing I won’t survive. This level of rest, relaxation has softened my grip to the point of being open to receiving. Madam Death stood at the doorway. Making friends with her is giving me life without the worry, struggle, unnecessary “what if” fear. My white knuckle fist that has been so normal it was undetectable is loosenig and opening into a receptive trust. Making friends with the death of my body, the death side of the yearly cycle, winter, is givine me life with a new foundation to build upon free from the terror of this young inner child whose needs were not met. After giving her the nurturing she needed so badly this child is now showing up infusing my winter seeds with her creativity and inspiration.

I have discovered that my survival is dependant on my ability to receive the gifts coming my way that not only assures my needs are met, but my life’s destiny road is traveled. If I am unable to feel the stillness and peace that comes from this open handedness I miss the gifts, and they just float on by unnoticed. The gift I received in my recent experience that forced me to meet the so called “Dragon” within that I was constantly running from was truly guarding the treasure chest I was longing for, just like in the fairy tales. Ahhhh, winter, I love it so!


Beloved Joy

December 28th, 2009

It is officially winter. My parting experience from fall, and my welcoming experience into winter will give me plenty to take into my winter inner travels to integrate, gestate, and bring form to in the spring.

I recently went back to my former full time home, Maui to support a close friend through her final passage in this incarnation. I arrived only three days before she left her body. It was the end of fall, the end of her life, the ultimate let go that the essence of fall embodies. I was honored to witness her process of letting go in those final days, recognizing that the more she let go the more she felt the love and compassion pouring her way from our community of caregivers. She left this life feeling loved and cared for, just as it should be, and, she gave us the gift of witnessing her final breath as she took it with eyes wide open and a smile on her face.

I was actively working the piece of letting go of control so I could open to a deeper connection to inner guidance before I went to Maui this fall. What I was given was the ultimate example. Just one of the many examples I was to receive showing me how life opens up and gives you what you need.

Now, I have obviously been restoring my relationship with the Divine Feminine throughout my journey in this lifetime. Hence the book I have written. This experience showed me there was a deeper level of work for me to do to reclaim my ability to open, and receive while letting go of what I think it should look like. Just like my friend at the end of her life, my needs are met, my soul is leading the way, just stay awake, even if it is your last breath, let go, and you will be met with LOVE. She left on the dark of the moon at the darkest time of the year on Dec12th. By the time we carried her body through the remainder of this sacred ritual it was time to go home.

I left Maui to return to my home in the mountains outside of Asheville, NC. I almost couldn’t take in all the love, appreciation, and kindness I was surrounded by. I kept feeling that I just needed some quiet time to integrate this experience so I don’t waste the incredible gift my friend left me with. I could see that there was some work to do of my own around receiving.

Upon returning home I was met by a big snow storm. I was stranded in my home on the mountain with my car stuck in a ditch halfway down my windy dirt road. The power lines came down along with the phone lines. The pump for the well doesn’t run without electricity. Nothing to do for days except be still, quiet, and integrate. I was given exactly what I needed. Now I am continuing to be quiet in the stillness of winter, stoking my wood burning stove, going deeper into the gift my world has offered up for my growth and reclamation of a shy, somewhat dormant piece of myself that is essential. I am much more conscious of how it feels to meet the world with a tight fist or an open receptive hand. The recent experiences have once again given me the reminder that I can trust that the jewels of life will land in my welcoming palm.

My beloved friend’s name was Joy. How poignant to also be reminded that I can learn through Joy. Thank you my beloved dear sister. Your parting gift was gratefully received and will not be wasted.

In the Spirit of Honoring Ourselves

November 21st, 2009

If you have read the first excerpt of my book on this site you know that I am rather fond of spa days. The weather has recently turned cold and my skin needs extra nourishment. So I decided to have fun with the herbs I dried from my summer bounty and create some facial delicacies for the winter months. I found a few easy food based recipes on the internet that I would like to share in case you want to bring this self honoring ritual into your life during the cold months that quietly try to seduce us into slowing down and deeply nourishing ourself. Following is the line up of my recent spa day with friends. You can use different combinations on a daily basis.

We started with cleansing our skin with Thyme Fennel Cleanser

2 sprigs fresh thyme, crumbled, or 1/2 TBS dried

2 tps fennel seeds, crushed 1/2 cup boiling water

juice of 1/2 lemon

Mix the thyme and fennel seed in a bowl and cover with boiling water. Add lemon juice and steep for 15 minutes. Strain. Apply with a cotton ball.

After cleansing we applied Ambrosia Honey Almond Scrub

4 TBS almond meal

2 TBS almond oil

4 TBS raw honey

5 drops peppermint essential oil

Just stir well. Apply about a tsp amount onto the face. Mix with a little water while you gently massage your skin. (Don’t add water to the jar of almond scrub) Be very gentle and don’t scrub the soft under eye skin. Remove with a warm washcloth.

We then moved onto the Avocado, Carrot, Cream Mask

I am doing this mask regularly through the colder months.

1 avocado

1 cooked carrot

1/2 cup heavy cream

1 egg

3 TBS honey

Place in a food processor and whip the ingredients into a nice smooth paste.

Spread this on you face and neck and hang out having a cup of tea. After about 15-20 minutes we removed this with a warm washcloth and applied:

Ambrosia Kelp Firming Mask

3 TBS plain yogurt

1 tsp organic kelp powder

1 tsp honey

Mix well and apply to your face and neck. Massage you skin lightly. Hang out some more, maybe have a snack, or exfoliate your hands with a blend on strawberries, almond oil and course salt. I used strawberries I froze from my garden.

After we removed the kelp mask with a warm washcloth we spritzed out face and necks with a toner I made by making a strong infusion of dried spearmint from the garden and spring water. I added a little apple cider vinegar. It’s very refreshing.

We then smeared an herbal moisturizer I made with an oil infusion of several herbs I gathered either from my garden or in the wild and dried, such as calendula, chamomile, rose buds, chickweed, nettle leaf, comfrey leaf, lavender, and lemon verbena.

It is a deliciously nourishing time to spend together, especially combined with a nice seasonal meal. I refrigerate these concoctions and use them throughout the colder months. If you make small batches they are alive and fresh and it makes a difference in how your skin responds to the nourishment. They are so easy you can just keep making them, applying them, and enjoying them. Not to mention the money you save from not having to buy expensive beauty products. Enjoy!!!

Thought for the Day

November 16th, 2009

Seasonal eating and living is a necessary step toward healing our relationship with our Mother Earth. It restores our recognition and gratitude for her wisdom in how to nourish us physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Both her and humanity have suffered greatly because of our lack of relationship. On-demand food that is shipped long distances and eaten out of season is one of the results of this disconnection—and it is making us all ill from undernourishment on all levels.

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